Cate said what?! And Raised $4,190 and ordered her machine!

She had said it before about 3 weeks ago but now she is saying “HI” multiple times each day and waving her hand! This is a big accomplishment for many reasons.  She can hear well enough to mimic us, puts her thoughts together to say the word when we do, visually see us wave, and then add in the motor skills it takes to wave her hand.  We are so proud of her! I have tried to get a good picture or video but no luck so far.  Here is the best that I could do.



It is these small yet big accomplishments that keep me going with her intense therapy and gives us all the hope that she will continue to improve and catch up with her peers.  Praise God!

A big thank you to all that have supported our fundraiser!!  We ordered the respiratory machine.  Now we have until September when we go to Philadelphia to raise the rest.

Then and Now – cute pictures!

I want to start by saying Cate has been seizure free for 1 week!

I started to look back at some pictures of when the girls were born.  Now that they are 2 and “big” it seems like so long ago that  we were in the NICU at the local children’s hospital.  Friday the girls had their 24 month check up at the pediatricians office.  Cate is 24 lbs 11 oz and Charlie is 21 lbs 11 oz.  They have stayed 2 to 3 pounds apart since they were born.

Enjoy the cuteness!


Day 4:

Charlie - 4 days old

Charlie – 4 days old

Day 5:

Cate, mom and dad - 5 days old The day she was extubated!

Cate, mom and dad – 5 days old
The day she was extubated!

Charlie and dad - 5 days old

Charlie and dad – 5 days old

Day 6:

Cate - 6 days old

Cate – 6 days old

Lewis family - 6 days old The first day they met out in the world!

Lewis family – 6 days old
The first day they met out in the world!

Cate and Charlie - 6 days old Charlie is wearing Ryan's wedding ring.

Cate and Charlie – 6 days old
Charlie is wearing Ryan’s wedding ring.

Charlie came home when she was 8 weeks old and Cate came home when she was 10 weeks old.

Defying the Diagnosis

During our last trip to the IAHP in Philadelphia we met another family with a son the same age as Cate and Charlie.  Their story is amazing.  Her boys were born at 23 weeks gestation!  Jacob is in the intensive treatment program at IAHP so we have a lot in common.  Although Jennifer and her family live on the other side of the country we are able to help and support one another.  I am very grateful for Jennifer’s support and am very proud of her and her family.  She has decided to share her story publicly as well.  If you are able to follow her page you will learn even more about the program and how to help children learn and grow.

Please visit their page:

Respiratory Patterning Machine and Masking


Cate having a good day!

Over $2,500 raised so far!  I am astonished at everyone’s generosity.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!  I keep talking about the respiratory patterning machine and I am guessing most of you are wondering what it is!  Now remember I am not a medical professional but I will do my best to explain Cate’s oxygen enrichment program given to us by the IAHP.  If you want to learn more please read the book “What to do About Your Brain Injured Child” by Glen Doman.  It is a great book for everyone to read.

Brain injury is caused with there is a lack of oxygen to the brain.  Oxygen is good for the brain and when it doesn’t get enough bad things can happen such as seizures.  Seizures are a symptom of lack of oxygen to the brain.  For most people with a brain injury breathing can be hard.  Not only breathing deep but breathing in a regular pattern that we all take for granted.  My husband says it is like teaching yourself to breath when you are running hard or swimming laps.  You have to think about it.  Imagine having to think about your breathing all day long and trying to function.  This is what Cate is going through.  Not only does it make it hard for her to be physical, eat, and talk, but she is also unable to get the amount of oxygen to her brain that she needs.  This can cause symptoms such as tightness in her muscles, immobility, vision problems, and slow down her improvement.

The IAHP ( has done years of research and studies on this subject and they have found great success with masking and respiratory patterning.  They have asked that I do not share any pictures of Cate using this equipment because it can be dangerous if not done properly under the right supervision.  So I will do my best to explain.  The masking is the first thing we did with the program and is a big contributor to her daily seizures stopping.  We use a small plastic bag with a small hole in the end and place this over her nose and mouth.  She re-breathes her own CO2.  For her program we do this for 45 seconds, every 5 minutes, at least 35 times each day.  Her CO2 levels increase which tells her brain to send more blood (oxygen) to the brain and she breathes very deep to increase her lung capacity.  The net effect after removing the mask is increased blood flow and increased oxygen to her brain.  It is why breathing into a paper bag when having an anxiety attack helps.  We just do it with a lot of frequency.  When we first started and on a regular basis we use an pulse oximeter to measure her oxygen level to make sure it does not go low.  She handles it well and we make a game out of it.

The respiratory patterning is the next step that helps her breathing.  It is a way to train her brain how to use a consistent breathing pattern, similar to an iron lung.  Currently we use a fabric vest that we can pull to tighten.  Two people pull and release to a metronome set at her breathing rate.  Pull -1..2.. Release-1 Pull-1..2.. Release 1, etc.  We do this to compress and release her chest so she breathes at a consistent rate.  Ryan and I were able to try this ourselves when we were in Philadelphia this spring and it was pretty crazy.  It was like you ran 1/4 mile but you were not tired or out of breath, just breathing deep.  It feels good.  We are only able to do this for up to 1 hour each day because we do not have enough time with the rest of her program.  The machine that we are now able to purchase (thank you to the generous donors!!) will pneumatically compress her vest at the proper rate.  She will be able to wear it all night and during naps.  That means instead of 1 hour each day of being patterned she will get 12+ hours!  Think of the amount of oxygen her brain will be able to get.  Hopefully this will help with her overall improvement and reduce her seizures.

Thank you again!  And please keep sharing.

$2,050 Raised! Update and Cate’s Medical Team

$2,050 raised already!!  I can’t believe how generous everyone is.  It means more to us than you will ever know.  Thank you to everyone who has supported and shared the site.  Please keep it going.


Charlie and Cate enjoying some of their new birthday presents.

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Cate had another good night.  No further seizure activity.  Her and Charlie are sleeping soundly.  I am not since I get up every hour or so to check on her.  Hopefully that will get better as each day goes by.  She is almost back to acting like herself.  She did a lot of crawling today and yelled at me when I wasn’t giving her enough attention.  As much as we try to be tough she does run the house!  At least we stays busy with her therapy most of the time.

I wanted to spend some time talking and thanking Cate’s medical team.  I have learned a lot since the girls were born and spent 10 weeks in the NICU.  The more you educate yourself and ask questions I believe the better care you or your child will get.  It took some time but Cate has a wonderful medical support team.  I can’t thank them enough.  Working with the Institutes for the Achievement of Human Potential (IAHP) has made the most change but the rest of the team here at home have been incredibly supportive.  The pediatrician has listened to our concerns, works with us on vaccines, and communicates with her specialists and the IAHP to keep everything together.  Cate’s neurologist thought I was crazy when I told him no more seizure medication and we would be doing an intense home program including masking her every 5 minutes during the day.  But he went along for the ride and is very pleased with her progress.  He has continued to listen and support Cate’s overall health.  Her neurosurgeon hasn’t been as involved (a good thing) but he too has supported and asked a lot of questions.  Cate also has an occupational therapist that comes to the house and helps her with eating and positioning.  The OT has worked with us and has helped to enhance her program.

Being at the hospital this weekend and seeing new doctors has only made me appreciate Cate’s regular doctors even more.  We got looks of surprise, frustration and indifference by the doctors on call when we shared Cate’s medical plan.  As her neurologist put it Monday morning, you are in the minority.  All I can say is that she is continuing to get better and surprise all of the medical professionals.  Thank you to the doctors and staff at IAHP!  They have given us the tools and explanations to do the best we can for Cate.

Home from the hospital, 2nd Birthday and Fundraising Site

It is very difficult to ask for help but it is no longer about us, it is about our daughter.  Cate and Charlie just celebrated their 2nd birthday!  Unfortunately the day after their party Cate had a bad seizure.  She was taken by ambulance to the emergency room and we spent the night in the hospital.  We just got home yesterday (their actual birthday).  Cate is doing well right now.  Cate has been seizure free for 5 months.  It could have been worse but it isn’t good.  There is a machine that we need to purchase to help with her breathing and have not been able to do so yet.  We are hoping with the fundraiser we can cover our costs to go to the IAHP in September and help with the respiratory patterning machine.  Hopefully this machine will add another defense against the seizures and improve her progress.  Cate has been making some great progress, she is now crawling over 100 feet each day on the flat floor!

Here is the link to the fundraising site.  Any support is very much appreciated!


The birthday party was a hit!  It was a backyard beach party.  Here are some pictures.


2nd Birthday!

Charlie loves cake!